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Ngaio Mary is 27 years old and
has four children, each from different fathers. They range in age
from the baby, who is 2 and a half, to the eldest of 11. She now
has a new husband, and a girl who helps with the children, all living
with her.
Mary's personality is infectious. She laughs a lot when she is
speaking in her high voice, and she gestures constantly. She is
pretty; her hair and clothes are always perfect, and she's quick
to hug in a society where hugging isn't the norm.
Mary is so wild with enthusiasm that it is hard to believe she
was living on the street, begging for food, in 2002. She offered
to wash clothes, but no one would hire her because she was so
dirty. "I was not eating, I was not dressing well,"
she says. She was HIV+ but could not take ARVs; the treatment
made her sick because she wasn't eating.
Now she receives treatment and is eating and happy. |
When Mary heard that she was on the list for a house, she screamed
so long and loudly that the BeadforLife staffer on the other end of
the phone said she almost went deaf! Mary calls the village "my
village" and her words stumble over each other as she describes
the new life it will give her. "The village will be good and
I will be the happiest there. I will have a small garden, and will
start a tailor shop. No one will knock on the door for rent, and everyone
will work together."
She chose Design F for her house because is a "growing house"
that can be added onto with time. As for the future in the village,
the ideas tumble out of her. She sees running water, electricity,
"a drumming group
." Mary has a cow, and wants to
bring it to her new house, and she also has plans to sell matoke,
bananas and charcoal to others in the village. |